Ladies and marriage

Hey all,how are we all?how has the past year in reflection treated us all? good,bad,fair,what ever it is there is cause to give thanks.
I bumped into some girls the other day and the only thing that was of interested to them was how this girl or that girl was married and they weren't.
Should that really be a headache.
what am saying is that your headache as a lady shouldn't be that Janet,Deborah or Nancy is married,because truth be told,you don't have an inkling about what goes on in their closet,or do you?
Ask some girls how they are faring in marriage and they would tell you 'hmmmm...i should have waited for that guy am compartible with,and not the one i have married'.
And that is the truth people!why can't we as ladies wait for the best.Did i hear you say wait till eternity? heaven no!that is one thing God won't allow to happen when you are in fellowship with him.
When you have a thriving relationship with God,you are able to decipher through the spirit who is who.
What am i saying in effect:all there is to say with me is that you get connected so you don't end up with some violent,unfaithful and dangerous kind of husband.With God you are able to have nudgings,feelings of peace or disturbance which are all methods that God uses to communicate things to us all.
So ladies,when next you hear that all your friends are getting hitched down the aisle,get it at the back of your mind that its not about the wedding gown,the public show of affection and kisses,but it is about the test of time and compartibility.
Dearie,i urge you to be on the look out for compartibility with the next dude that comes around.
see ya soon