Discover yourself before you get hitched

Why are there too many failed relationships and marriages?Why are there too many disappointments when it comes to marriages and relationships? why are people giving up on what a true relationship should be and settling for less? Too many questions huh?

however you want to look at this situation,the issue isn't only about looking for that one person that is for you,the issue is for you to look for that one authentic being that lives on the inside of you.The real YOU!

Am not saying that you turn to a Mr Jekyll and Hyde,No.What i am saying is that you first develop an intimate relationship with yourself so that you are able to be in tune with yourself before you meet that one person who have got the total package you want.After all the best book (Bible) says:Love your neighbour as yourself.So working on yourself before you meet him/her will be of great advantage.You don't wanna make life miserable for your partner now,or do you? Of what use would it be for you to buy a commodity of essence,only for you to misuse the commodity! By total package,am not saying any human being is perfect,super and what have you.What this means is that after you come in tune with yourself,you are able to attract one who is going to the same destination and in tune as you in life.The words of the bible says:can two work together except they agree? So i ask,can a relationship work,if the two people in question aren't going to the same destination?IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO THEY SAY,AND I ALSO SAY THAT IT TAKES TWO COMPARTIBLE BEINGS TO WORK A RELATIONSHIP OUT. Can a goat marry a Dog? How would they cope?how will they be able to co-habit?your answer to these questions is as good as mine.

A lot of us make the mistakes of getting hitched before we embark on an evaluation trip?What if after the evaluation,you found that she or he just wouldn't work in unison,what happens?

HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE COMPARTIBLE WITH A PERSON?

Compartibility means your core values.What you believe in.what you stand for etc.Attraction=compartibility=soul mate
It would take one who has a similar core value to make a happy and fulfilling relationship.
Even Christ himself in a bid to build his disciples,had to imbibe in them the right kind of values.For you to discover yourself and by extension meet that compartible one,you have got to work on your positive values.Ask yourself these:

What do i believe in?
Am i a disciplined person?
do i have a good moral standard?
do i share the same thoughts as my friends,or are we totally apart?


If your answers were in the negative,you don't have to worry.You have got the time to work on yourself to attract the right kind of person.
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ENJOY!