How deep are you?

It was Sisquo of Druhill group that sang how deep is your love? some years back,but that isn't what am talking about here.How deep are you? What is the depth of your heart? some folks might even say 'ah ah is our heart deep?'Indeed our hearts was wired to be deep.Every human is spiritual and nothing spiritual is shallow.All things spiritual is deep,including you.
HOW DEEP IS DEEP?
We are like deep wells.It only takes the man who can reach deep within the well to draw that would succeed.Bible says deep calleth deep.It would take that resilient fellow to look beyond frivolities of life and reach within to draw.
The good thing is that every human being has been given what to draw with.what is it you ask?Every human have been given talents,abilities,gifts and skills (TAGS) to draw from life the opportunities there are.It then means only the fittest survives.HOW DEEP YOU ARE DETERMINES HOW FIT YOU ARE.

HOW TO TURN YOUR SHALLOWNESS TO DEEPNESS

Acknowledge Christ as your Lord and saviour.No man is an island.you are not here by your volition.Someone took the risk for you.If you are not born again,it is one prerequisite for your deepness.Lord Jesus,I am a sinner,and i know you died for me.You must have loved me too much to do that.I accept you today,come into my life.

Get focused-reach within.learn yourself and know your strength and weaknesses.this would help you.

Get off the whole noise.spend time with yourself.remember its only how you treat yourself that others would.

Till i get on the keyboard for you again.
happy Christmas preparation.

Discover yourself before you get hitched

Why are there too many failed relationships and marriages?Why are there too many disappointments when it comes to marriages and relationships? why are people giving up on what a true relationship should be and settling for less? Too many questions huh?

however you want to look at this situation,the issue isn't only about looking for that one person that is for you,the issue is for you to look for that one authentic being that lives on the inside of you.The real YOU!

Am not saying that you turn to a Mr Jekyll and Hyde,No.What i am saying is that you first develop an intimate relationship with yourself so that you are able to be in tune with yourself before you meet that one person who have got the total package you want.After all the best book (Bible) says:Love your neighbour as yourself.So working on yourself before you meet him/her will be of great advantage.You don't wanna make life miserable for your partner now,or do you? Of what use would it be for you to buy a commodity of essence,only for you to misuse the commodity! By total package,am not saying any human being is perfect,super and what have you.What this means is that after you come in tune with yourself,you are able to attract one who is going to the same destination and in tune as you in life.The words of the bible says:can two work together except they agree? So i ask,can a relationship work,if the two people in question aren't going to the same destination?IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO THEY SAY,AND I ALSO SAY THAT IT TAKES TWO COMPARTIBLE BEINGS TO WORK A RELATIONSHIP OUT. Can a goat marry a Dog? How would they cope?how will they be able to co-habit?your answer to these questions is as good as mine.

A lot of us make the mistakes of getting hitched before we embark on an evaluation trip?What if after the evaluation,you found that she or he just wouldn't work in unison,what happens?

HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE COMPARTIBLE WITH A PERSON?

Compartibility means your core values.What you believe in.what you stand for etc.Attraction=compartibility=soul mate
It would take one who has a similar core value to make a happy and fulfilling relationship.
Even Christ himself in a bid to build his disciples,had to imbibe in them the right kind of values.For you to discover yourself and by extension meet that compartible one,you have got to work on your positive values.Ask yourself these:

What do i believe in?
Am i a disciplined person?
do i have a good moral standard?
do i share the same thoughts as my friends,or are we totally apart?


If your answers were in the negative,you don't have to worry.You have got the time to work on yourself to attract the right kind of person.
Till you read form me again,COMPLIMENTS OF THE SEASON.

ENJOY!

Ladies and marriage

Hey all,how are we all?how has the past year in reflection treated us all? good,bad,fair,what ever it is there is cause to give thanks.
I bumped into some girls the other day and the only thing that was of interested to them was how this girl or that girl was married and they weren't.
Should that really be a headache.
what am saying is that your headache as a lady shouldn't be that Janet,Deborah or Nancy is married,because truth be told,you don't have an inkling about what goes on in their closet,or do you?
Ask some girls how they are faring in marriage and they would tell you 'hmmmm...i should have waited for that guy am compartible with,and not the one i have married'.
And that is the truth people!why can't we as ladies wait for the best.Did i hear you say wait till eternity? heaven no!that is one thing God won't allow to happen when you are in fellowship with him.
When you have a thriving relationship with God,you are able to decipher through the spirit who is who.
What am i saying in effect:all there is to say with me is that you get connected so you don't end up with some violent,unfaithful and dangerous kind of husband.With God you are able to have nudgings,feelings of peace or disturbance which are all methods that God uses to communicate things to us all.
So ladies,when next you hear that all your friends are getting hitched down the aisle,get it at the back of your mind that its not about the wedding gown,the public show of affection and kisses,but it is about the test of time and compartibility.
Dearie,i urge you to be on the look out for compartibility with the next dude that comes around.
see ya soon