HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

Success in a relationship comes by loving God! Some folk may say what more has my relationship got to do with myself and God than my patner?The truth is that the extent to which you love God and yourself is the extent to which you could love your partner right and make your relationship a success.

Brian was raised in a troublesome and unpleasant home. He watched his mum and dad exchange blows and quarrels over every trivial issue, and thus grew up feeling unloved and empty. He then thought that he would be whole only if he had a relationship in college.

Just six months on campus, he meets Ada and they began a affair however, no sooner than the affair Started than they fell out with eachother.What happened you ask? Brian became too demanding of Ada, so that all thelove, affection and tranquility he lacked at home, he wanted out of her.

LESSON TO BE LEARNT
• Brian thought that someone could love him into wellness.
• He should have started a relationship with God first to discover his strength and weaknesses, which would by extension help him, love his partner right.
• Brian should have loved himself first before going into a relationship with Ada.Reason, because he would be able to decipher what to give and what not.

Perhaps your own weakness in relationship isn’t like Brian’s, but you still struggle with your affairs.

First off, do what have got to be done-be in tune with your inner man.
Relationship isn’t all about the physical qualities and inner qualities you can conjecture about your patner.Its more of your spiritual harmony and compartibility with the person in Question .you can’t have that peace you require in a person if you are with the wrong person.

How do I know the right person for me you ask! I dare to Say that everything boils down to the relationship you have with God and yourself. You are able to
Succeed in a relationship if you never neglect this three; GOD, YOU and YOUR PATNER.One paves way for the other to thrive.

If God truly is love and you are in synch with him, then he would show and notify you with the right ways to make it work.

So when next you think about a relationship, think this formular: GOD+YOU+YOUR PATNER=HEALTHY AND SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP.
KEEP WORKING AT YOURS. God bless you.