SCARS AND DARK PATCHES OF DATING

HEY ALL,AM HERE AGAIN!TODAY WAS COOL.BY THIS I MEAN NOT TOO SUNNY BUT COOL.
WANNA TALK ON SOMETHING AS CRUCIAL AS DATING.

YEAH....INDEED IT IS.THERE HAS BEEN A WHOLE LOT OF QUESTIONS ABOUT DATING.PARTICIPANTS AT MY SEMINARS GET TO ASK ME QUESTIONS LIKE WHAT AGE REALLY IS APPROPRIATE FOR DATING AND ALL....AND BLAH AND BLAH.

WELL IT REALLY ISN'T THE DATING THAT HAS ISSUES,RATHER IT IS WHAT WE DO WITH DATING THAT DETERMINES THE OUTCOME OF OUR DATING.WHETHER FOR GOOD OR BAD.

DID I HEAR YOU SAY 'WHAT COULD BE DONE WITH DATING,OTHER THAN TO LOVE,LOVE AND LOVE MORE' INDEED ITS GOOD TO LOVE AND BE LOVED.JUST LIKE THE SONG MADE POPULAR BY AN OLD SCHOOL MUSICIAN IN THE UNITED STATES.THE LINE GOES.....'ITS SO GOOOOOD LOVING SOMEBODY,WHEN SOMEBODY LOVES YOU BACK'.OH YEAH I CONCUR....HOWEVER WHY THEN DO WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN STORIES TO TELL ABOUT THIS WHOLE LOVE AND DATING THING?

WHETHER WE LIKE IT OR NOT,WE HAVE BEEN HURT BY DATING THE WRONG PERSON AT ONE TIME OR THE OTHER IN OUR LIVES.PERMIT ME REFER TO DATING FOR THE SAKE OF THIS READ, AS 'UNTIMELY ROMANCE'.

DON'T GET ME WRONG!AM NOT SAYING LOVING SOMEONE IN ITSELF IS BAD O,WHAT AM TRYING TO BRING OUT IS THAT DATING HAS GOT ITS ROLE TO PLAY IN HURTING US.THIS ISN'T TO SAY THAT WE REMAINED SINGLE FOR GOD KNOWS HOW LONG.NOPE

WOULDN'T IT BE SWEET THAT WE WERE PATIENT SO THAT WE COULD LOOK WELL AND THEN KNOW THAT WE ARE GETTING INVOLVED WITH SOME GIRL OR GUY WHO IS COMPARTIBLE WITH US!
DATING TURNING OUT WELL FOR YOU AND I REALLY DEPENDS ON WHAT WE DID WITH IT,OUR MOTIVE BEHIND IT AND OUR FUTURE WITH IT.
HAVEN'T YOU SEEN GUYS AND GIRLS WHO WERE FRIENDS IN THE UNIVERSITY AND EVEN OUTSIDE UNIVERSITY NOT ENDING UP COUPLES?WELL IF YOU HAVEN'T,THEN I HAVE.

THE ISSUE THEREFORE IS GOING INTO THE DATING GAME WHEN AND ONLY WHEN YOU KNOW YOU ARE READY FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP TO LEAD TO YOUR GETTING HITCHED TO YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER.PERIOD!

A LOT OF US HAVE DABBLED INTO IT FOR THE SAKE OF 'BELONGING',TO THE CLICK OF PEOPLE WEY GET BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND.BUT BELIEVE ME,NO BE BY LIKE THAT O!

THE BIG QUESTION THEN IS,HOW READY ARE YOU MY GUY OR MY BABE?
IF YOU ARE NOT THEN I JUST THINK YOU MIGHT AS WELL CHANNEL THAT ENERGY INTO SOMETHING BETTER.

SAMPLE THE VIEWS OF SOME MARRIED FOLKS,AND THEY WOULD TELL YOU THAT IF THEY HAD KNOWN,THEY WOULD HAVE HAD PATIENCE TILL THEY MET THE RIGHT PEOPLE RATHER THAN JUMPING AND THEN TRYING THEIR HANDS ON EVERY TOM,DICK,HARRY,JANET DEBORAH AND NANCY.

DO STRATEGIZE BEFORE YOU JUMP INTO ANOTHER ONE.
OR CAN YOU AFFORD A HEARTBREAK?

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