3 Reasons You Must Ask God For A Life Partner

Greetings to you dear friend. I am glad I have the opportunity to share some great insights with you. Without further ado, here is what I have in store for you today. I have called it reasons you must ask God for your life partner. I know you will be greatly enriched. So Read on! If you have gone through series of heart breaks or failed relationships, then you just might agree with me that it can be a very harrowing experience. Heart break without doubt does deal the receiver a sad blow. Some even never recover from these blows at all.While some have relied on their intelligence to find the right person for them, others have relied on their intuition to do the guiding. The truth however you look at it is that nothing pays like connecting to your source in finding the right person for you. Did you know that there is great gain in looking up to God and him alone when you want to have the very best of relationships, more so when you are waiting of looking for Mr. right or Miss Right? So here are 4 Reasons why you must look up to God for your partner. 1. He Knows More The reason that you were created by God makes it even more important for you to look unto him for direction and insight when seeking for the best in your relationship. He is an all knowing one and so he alone knows what’s best or worse for you. Lean on him and you will be sure to find the right partner. 2. He Is Love You must have heard by now that God is love. Therefore if God is love, then it means that he is the only true love that has ever existed. Going to him to show you who your true love is make all the difference. You are guaranteed a true love, when you go through the true lover himself-God. 3. It Guarantees Bliss Knowing that God’s insight helped you to find the right partner makes all the difference. This is because we do not have a wicked God who delights in seeing us hurt. So if God has shown you a partner, then you can be rest assured that marital bliss will be your portion. It is a thing of joy to know that you can get on the right track in your relationships. If you ask those who have gotten it right in their relationships, you will know that running into God to make the best of choices for you does pay. So, wouldn't you rather choose the right path, now that you know the truth?

SAY IT ALL - GET IT ALL !

Friends, it has been a while, and boy a great while it has. Months have passed since i smelt this arena. Feels good to be home again.

Seriously massive things have happened to me and I must confess that I and my mouth needed to help set things into motion. Yes I enrolled in the say-it-all-and –get-it-all –school, and I graduated to another level. One good thing about this school as it were is that you never finally stop being a student of this school. You only move on to another class and then the school continues till death comes.

What am I talking about now? I hear some say.Hey, but of course we have heard a lot of pastors and inspirational speakers talk of confessing it to take it and all that. Yes, we have and truth be told, this principle can never be over emphasized.

There are some who believe it works, while others feel, ‘yeah right! It works for some people and perhaps it won’t work for me because we are not all the same’. What a lie? Have you ever seen where the law of gravity only worked for a selected few? Say only for the slim and the fat ones needed to hang in the air the moment they raised a foot or arm in the air?

Good news is no. It is a natural law and it covers everyone from all walks of life. It has worked for an avalanche of people in different endeavours of life, and it would work for you only if you activated it.

Just like getting a new email identity or registering newly as a member of a social network site, once you signed on, an email is sent to your inbox for you to activate before you get started. Getting on board with the say-it-all-and get-it-all principle can be likened to that. You are automatically a member of it since you are a living being, because only those alive are eligible to use it. Why? What would a dead man hope for?

The activation starts the moment you begin to bring to bear this principle. Mark you, you do not put forth this principle once and assume that what you have just said will be.

For Instance, I didn’t want to go into marriage with just anyone, I never wanted to have any kind of marriage, so I put this principle to use, since it had worked for me on other trivia. I listed the qualities, core values, thraits, value system, same past time as mine, same futuristic plans as mine and all what not, and started confessing. Believe me I never said it once, twice, or thrice and stopped. I said it over and over again. I said it anytime, everywhere and anytime.

Boy, did I get what all I wanted? Y-E-S, and I even got extras for my labour.
Here are two things you need to be mindful of:

BE CONSISTENT
Get ready to say it over and over again till it becomes a part of you and you begin to feel and act as if you have it already. Which is what faith truly is, or isn’t it? No wavering, no listening to side comments - I mean that inner voice that would try to discourage you. Just do not stop saying. Once you are able to bring yourself to this mastery level, you are half way to the get-it-all land.

BELIEVE
Despite the odds, know that believing you have it already without touching it will seal the deal and drive you home. No one with a weak belief system goes far in life. Your consistency with saying it will solidify your belief system and you will come to believe you have it, and all you will want to do is thank God for it.
Friends it has worked for people, it has worked consistently for me and it is waiting for you to enroll with it. It will work for you.
Keep saying it to get it.

Peace of God

....how about disconnecting to connect ?

Hello everybody and a very happy new year to you.It's a great year once again and believe me this year already has come to mean different things to different people.For some it is a year to step up on whatever venture already embarked on in the last year,while for others it is yet a time for new goals,aspirations and what have you. Still for some it is a period to make new friends and start new relationships for the next level.

All of these are good ways to kick start the year,but how about disconnecting to connect! Confused? please do not be. This is a perfect time to make a thorough check at the friends we have now and ask ourselves if really we have been able to do a lot with them around.Truth is that we only need twenty percent of the friends we have to take us to eighty percent level of success in life so says the eighty-twenty theory. It goes on to posit that we do not need all our friends to climb the apogee of our achievements.Meaning that you and i will need to disconnect from some friends that aren't adding values to our lives to prove that we are worthy of the next level.

Did i hear someone say what in heaven's name could she be getting at? Even the bible yet talks about prunning - being on the alert to pay attention only to meaningful and creative friendship that can cause a catalyst,that is the spirit. My friend,we have got to adhere strictly to the eighty-twenty principle if we want to achieve without distractions as it were.

Our strength as people who seek the best in life lie in the ability to carry only a few along the path of greatness.Mark you that i am not talking about being so self sufficient in ourselves without thinking of our fellow man.I am talking about detaching ourselves from the we-we mentality.Afterall when you do achieve a great feat,you do not expect that everyone will be sincrely happy for you. Never think of riding on any man's back to the top.God has made everything you and i need available to us.He does arranges great friendships and relationships to form and then destiny is fulfiled.except he does that,in vain are you and i wallowing in a venture i call the 'arrangee business'.

So part of our assignment for the new year should be to disconnect to connect to success.You can not borrow another man's eyes for sleep.You have got to stand up to life by yourself.Be ready to think by yourself and then the collective mentality issue will be a thing of the past.
Let us toast to a success packed 2011 and we shall testify greatly to it.

Is this story like the one you have heard before?

In the animal world it reached a point when there was so much negativity going on.There was indeed a lot-from immorality to strife,envy,blasphemy,jealousy etc.And so a chief Hen found great favour in the sight of the King of all animals,and was then assigned to die as a sacrifice to help liberate others from oppression,poverty,sickness and diseases.This sacrifice was also meant to cover even the unhatched and unborn chicks and animals,implying that for as the chief Hen's blood was shed every other living creature was whole and had the same access into the kind of life the king of them all had.

What a great thing for the chief Hen to die that others might live! After the death there were still some who never believed or accepted the essence of the sacrifice.What a Hen!

Oh....this story sure sounds like one we have heard before,but the characters weren't animals but humans? without doubt it is!

Some of us believe just by the nod of the head that Christ's blood did other things aside washing away our sins, while others strongly believe and are experiencing it in all sphere of life.What is stoping those of us who are not? why are we not deeply rooted in the belief system that his blood did other powerful things aside the washing away of our sins? Did you know that our belief system is strengthened if we allow and fused it into our experiences?

God's stance with the death and resurrection of his Son Jesus christ is that we might be whole in all respect.He was crucified that you and i might have it well in wealth,health,strength and on earth.With his blood already shed,you and i can climb the highest of mountains and conquer.we are able to fight the toughest of giants-even those bigger than Goliath.We are able to take different countries and have them defeated. But,do we truly experience it to be so? It is one thing to believe a fact,it is yet another to be a witness via experience.

No one street goes too far, a street that branches into other streets is more like it.In like manner have it known strongly that his blood was shed to cleanse our sins as well as give us a total experience in all ramification of life.

Salvation is a bumper package.Let us savour and experience it like never before.
The key to experiencing it is believing it like there is no tomorrow.
Believe it and you will attract the total package.

LET US RAISE THE ANTE

Have you ever wondered why we keep doing the same things and getting the same results? Setting the same goals over and over again yet with little or no accomplishment being achieved? This could be so frustrating! so that at some point you would begin to think that the solution to the issue should be not setting goals at all because you already have a negative inkling that what you set just might not be achieved.

Oh yes! some folks have been there a couple times and back and so know what obtains in that field.Why do we set serious sincre goals from our hearts and then loose strength while on the road of achievement? Some people even resort to setting other goals aside from the ones that failed to be achieved and then oops! it also falls like a pack of cards.

But have we ever thought of raising the ante in the quest to achieve these goals? By this i mean increasing the the momentum in the zeal we put into achieving them.It would only make sense for a man riding a bike ten kilometres behind a man riding a jeep to fire more in order to move the fastest to overtake him.

Remember,goals set are meant to be achieved not dumped.The magnitude of zeal you and i put into our targets will be a determinant of the result.I have heard some people say that activity isn't result! yes i agree,however i also believe that your activities in your result quest will go a long way in knowing if achievement is in sight or not.

So friend,when next you think about setting or achieving a goal,give upping the ante a thorough consideration.Your result is already in sight!i can see it!what about you?

ciao

Wise Tappers

Hello everybody,and how have you all been? I am glad to be back after a long hiatus.Trust me,i do not intend to be missing in action again.

It is already the eleventh month in the two thousandth and tenth year of our lord and before we know it,we will be talking about a brand new year.Relax!am not about to kick start by counting the days of the year,after all a kindergarten kid would do well in that field.This piece is about you and i doing a thorough check to know how many times we reached within in the last couple of months.

I have heard so much already from some people about how fulfilling the year has been so far.While some say it has been too tasking and so unfulfiling others are there just sitting on the fence.It doesn't matter which of the schools you belong to.My question to you then would be this;How often did you reach from within to tap? How creative were you at work,school,home front,social life and what have you.Did you always have to rely on another man's initiative to roll? How innovative were you in the past months? Who and who did you inspire unto greatness? Who saw what you came up with and thought they would strive to do better?

Only the wise taps from the avalanche of resources available to him within.The foolish man knows nothing and cares less about tapping from within.All he is after is how to build on another man's foundation.

With the above,you could easily decipher who a wise man is,as well who a foolish man is.So i ask: Looking back at the past months,Have you been wise or foolish?

I have come to know by experience that you must never say never.It is less than two months to the end of the year,true! But do you know that you could pull a stunt that could change the landscape of the remaining year as well as 2011? This is no joke my friend! You have all it takes to look within and birth that magical idea. The key is being Wise and tapping from the inside.

Let us keep at it and sky will be the beginning.

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

Success in a relationship comes by loving God! Some folk may say what more has my relationship got to do with myself and God than my patner?The truth is that the extent to which you love God and yourself is the extent to which you could love your partner right and make your relationship a success.

Brian was raised in a troublesome and unpleasant home. He watched his mum and dad exchange blows and quarrels over every trivial issue, and thus grew up feeling unloved and empty. He then thought that he would be whole only if he had a relationship in college.

Just six months on campus, he meets Ada and they began a affair however, no sooner than the affair Started than they fell out with eachother.What happened you ask? Brian became too demanding of Ada, so that all thelove, affection and tranquility he lacked at home, he wanted out of her.

LESSON TO BE LEARNT
• Brian thought that someone could love him into wellness.
• He should have started a relationship with God first to discover his strength and weaknesses, which would by extension help him, love his partner right.
• Brian should have loved himself first before going into a relationship with Ada.Reason, because he would be able to decipher what to give and what not.

Perhaps your own weakness in relationship isn’t like Brian’s, but you still struggle with your affairs.

First off, do what have got to be done-be in tune with your inner man.
Relationship isn’t all about the physical qualities and inner qualities you can conjecture about your patner.Its more of your spiritual harmony and compartibility with the person in Question .you can’t have that peace you require in a person if you are with the wrong person.

How do I know the right person for me you ask! I dare to Say that everything boils down to the relationship you have with God and yourself. You are able to
Succeed in a relationship if you never neglect this three; GOD, YOU and YOUR PATNER.One paves way for the other to thrive.

If God truly is love and you are in synch with him, then he would show and notify you with the right ways to make it work.

So when next you think about a relationship, think this formular: GOD+YOU+YOUR PATNER=HEALTHY AND SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP.
KEEP WORKING AT YOURS. God bless you.